Post by KSSunflower on Nov 9, 2017 14:41:27 GMT -6
It was brought to my attention that some may be turned away by seeing this category on the forum. I wanted to give my reasoning for having it here.
1)Polygamy is part of Latter-day Saint history. Some may want to discuss certain aspects of polygamy and I'd rather it have its own section than clutter the rest of the board.
2)Right or wrong, people have sexual desires that would take them outside of marriage. Some people choose to keep it in fantasy, but it can be confusing as one navigates these thoughts and feelings. I feel they need a sounding board as much as anybody else who may be struggling sexually in other ways.
What this category is NOT.
1)It is not for promoting or glamorizing non-monogamous type relationships.
2)It is not to share one's experiences if one has been involved in a non-monogamous relationship.
3)It is not to make anybody feel shame for having these desires.
Most likely, people know church teachings and that monogamy is the standard. My hope is that others can help bring perspective and clarity on how to proceed. My opinion is that telling people they shouldn't is not helpful when the desire continues to be there. What they are seeking is a)how to rid themselves of the desire or b)an acceptable way to act on the desire.
Please keep these things in mind as you post.
1)Polygamy is part of Latter-day Saint history. Some may want to discuss certain aspects of polygamy and I'd rather it have its own section than clutter the rest of the board.
2)Right or wrong, people have sexual desires that would take them outside of marriage. Some people choose to keep it in fantasy, but it can be confusing as one navigates these thoughts and feelings. I feel they need a sounding board as much as anybody else who may be struggling sexually in other ways.
What this category is NOT.
1)It is not for promoting or glamorizing non-monogamous type relationships.
2)It is not to share one's experiences if one has been involved in a non-monogamous relationship.
3)It is not to make anybody feel shame for having these desires.
Most likely, people know church teachings and that monogamy is the standard. My hope is that others can help bring perspective and clarity on how to proceed. My opinion is that telling people they shouldn't is not helpful when the desire continues to be there. What they are seeking is a)how to rid themselves of the desire or b)an acceptable way to act on the desire.
Please keep these things in mind as you post.