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Post by KSSunflower on May 2, 2018 0:38:26 GMT -6
What are your thoughts?
Over the past few months, my husband and I have had conversations about it. It is something that I have come to increasingly enjoy. My husband enjoys it only in the sense that he knows it turns me on, otherwise it isn’t really his thing.
He somewhat views it as abusive and manipulative. He doesn’t fully understand my desire for it. I can’t explain it very well to him.
Do you feel that a sub/Dom dynamic can fit within the values of the LDS faith? If so, how?
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Post by hotrod1 on May 2, 2018 11:08:29 GMT -6
I don’t think the SUB/DOM relationship would work for us as a couple, but on the other hand we have never tried it.
As far as from the LDS perspective I’m not sure. I would have to say whatever two consenting adults do with each other or maybe in this case to each other and doesn’t involve outside individuals or pornography is OK. I guess it depends on how much “abuse” is used. Just my opinion.
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Post by edshubby on May 2, 2018 16:41:09 GMT -6
What are your thoughts? Over the past few months, my husband and I have had conversations about it. It is something that I have come to increasingly enjoy. My husband enjoys it only in the sense that he knows it turns me on, otherwise it isn’t really his thing. He somewhat views it as abusive and manipulative. He doesn’t fully understand my desire for it. I can’t explain it very well to him. Do you feel that a sub/Dom dynamic can fit within the values of the LDS faith? If so, how? Admittedly, I don’t know much about this sort of thing. However, I think you really have to understand why you find it to be enjoyable. On the one hand, I can see people participating in it as a result of past trauma. To the extent that it is preventing healing, exacerbating wounds, or perpetuating negative or unhealthy behaviors and relationships, then I would avoid it. But I can also see some people who are otherwise mentally healthy treating it more like a game... like extreme LARPing or something. In such a scenario, I’m not sure why there would be an issue if it’s consensual and not degrading or used as a weapon, to maintain unrighteous dominion, or to perpetrate or perpetuate abuse. I recently read an article about a financial dominatrix. That sort of thing just seems abusive and one person is clearly taking advantage of the other, even if it is “consensual”. |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 24, 2019 19:25:13 GMT -6
If both go into it of their own free will and volition, I see absolutely no problem with. It's kinda fun if you ask me.... especially when she turns herself over to me completely.
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Post by NeverGiveUp on Feb 10, 2019 22:06:25 GMT -6
I like the idea, but only lightly. I am not sure it would work for me all the time, but I have to admit being tied down and her having her way with me would BLOW MY MIND!!! I don't think she would be willing but .. maybe? I'm not to the point that talking about this would even be possible.
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